Wednesday, September 30, 2009

New Blood

Everywhere I go no, matter where it is, I get bitten!!! I don't know what it is! And it seems like I’m the only one. It's really starting to "p" me off. Right now, I'm nursing four bites, one on my finger - I mean what kind of insect decides to do that? I mean to be honest they are kinda smart, seeing as its really uncomfortable and irritating and it keeps itching coz it's just below the knuckle so every time it bends it stretches the skin which irritates it even more. Arghhhhh!!! They've also managed to get into other uncomfortable places like under the armpit. I hope you're all feeling the pain. The same thing happened to me when I went to Sierra Leone, and even to Maryland. In Sierra Leone, it got so bad that I tried to sleep with extra long gloves on. Now this was in the middle of their summer, so it made for very uncomfortable and sweaty nights. In the end I had to submit to the little wretches. In Maryland, those little things covered my legs in lovely red bumps. Wearing trousers just aggravated them, so I had to wear shorts IN PUBLIC!!!
Now my theory is, and correct me if I’m wrong, they sense, or rather smell, when new, tasty blood has arrived on their territory and so they go all out. I suppose in some strange way I should be flattered? Stupid things!!! I've almost run out of the antiseptic cream for lapping it on. Also, now I feel paranoid that I've been bitten in other places.
Ok rant over for the time being. Back to work!

Monday, September 28, 2009

Love: Finally!

Ok I realise that the title of this blog, is Love, Travels, News and Everything Between, but I have so far evaded discussing the first topic. To be honest I think I was avoiding it as it means that I have to get all personal and honest. At the time of creating the blog, it seemed exciting to have it as a topic to discuss because everyone has a view on it, but when it came to the crunch… it’s kinda “scary”.


So here I go. Amidst the crazy schedule of 20km runs, which I must add didn’t finish till 10:00pm, and then waking up at 07:00am for morning exercises and more running, at which point the heavens opened and gave us all a good shower, to trips to the market and farewell dinners, we( that is my aunt and I, who I must add is absolutely amazing – I was the one struggling to keep up), also attended a wedding. The ceremony was beautiful; even if it didn’t start at the time it was supposed to. But I guess what should we expect really, from our fellow brothers and sisters nothing but the best of BMT. The wait was well worth it in my opinion. The most striking thing that stood out to me was not the decorations of the church, or how beautiful the bride looked, or her intricately embroided and beaded dress, or the nerves of the groom but rather that you could feel the presence of God and God was the focus of the wedding. The sermon reminded us of the meaning of marriage as the “institution” and what it takes to make it successful in the Christian sense. The pastor was not afraid to speak truth and tell the couple that there will be times when they would want to just walk out, but it’s up to them to make a daily decision to remain faithful, strong and honest to their partner. More importantly, marriage as he put it is about putting the other person first before yourself, ensuring that in everything you do, that person remains your priority. I’ve been thinking a lot about marriage myself recently, not that I’m getting married yet, but because I’ve been in places where people have been talking about it or through conversations with friends about relationships. It’s made me seriously consider what I want from my marriage. Love obviously is important, but in all honestly, do we even know what that truly means? I think it has become really easy to say “I love you” or simply “I love …” followed by the appropriate personal pronoun or even noun. But we don’t take time out to truly consider its true meaning. I have found that the greatest love that there could ever be is from God. He sent His son to die for me and you. Jesus, I believe is the best and ultimate example of what love in its truest sense means. If we apply that to marriage, if we love like Jesus loves and do as He taught, then divorce rates will not be the ridiculous 50% of marriages as they currently stand. Couples are stepping into marriage too lightly. And it’s not helped by certain celebrity couples who flaunt themselves as being totally in love, get married, only to be divorced a few months later. I think we all need to think about what we want for ourselves, how we want to be treated and what we deserve. I know a couple, who are close family friends who have been married 66 years this year. That is what I call a working relationship.

Weekend Activities: 25th - 27th Sept 2009

This weekend has been the strangest in a while, and if it was a glimpse of what future weekends hold in Tunisia and my life then it’s both “scary” (my favourite word at the moment) and exhausting. I feel that I’ve learnt a lot about people and found a renewed desire to be a positive influence to others.

The activities started on Friday night after work. I did not know what I was letting myself get involved in. Had I known, I’m not sure that I would have gone ahead with it. I agreed to join my aunt and some of her colleagues for a 20km run. Yep…craziness I know. Especially as the longest I’ve ran or walked is probably around a quarter of that distance. Nonetheless, I donned on the suitable attire, my old and faithful Rebok cross-training trainers and t-shirt and jogging bottoms and prepared myself mentally for the pursing challenge. I felt a little bit more at ease once I found out that the run would take place along the coast at La Marsa. This would give me an opportunity to see another part of the city that I’m going to be spending the next few months in. However, what my informant failed to tell me was that the coastline does not lie on flat plains but rather mountainous pastures, which meant that our run took us up some rather steep hills. So you can imagine that the run turned into a walk on some occasions when the burn and side-stitches took hold. Despite this, I am proud to say that we completed it, in around 3 hours. Now, I have no idea if that’s good time or not for a first timer…but I know that it was around twice as long as our main man, Mr Zimbabwe takes when he does the same route on a daily basis!! Madness, although, I think that he has an unfair advantage being from south of the sub-Saharan and all – nah that’s just me hating. I would say to everyone that given the opportunity you should try it. It’s really easy to back down from challenges, because we’re unsure of where it will lead us, or even because we believe that we’re not capable to do it. But it’s amazing what a little determination and faith can do. It’s a lot easier if you take the first step, than not taking any steps at all and remaining on the peripherals. I guess what I’m saying is that, don’t be self defeatist.

On the same theme, I attended a farewell dinner for one of the VPs of the organisation. Speakers spoke of her determination, zeal, compassion and faith in everything she did. It was a real inspiration for a girl like me to see that young black single females can make a significant difference to others less fortunate than ourselves, simply if we apply ourselves. She reminded us that, we are all privileged. It is because of the opportunities given to us that we are where we are and have achieved what we have achieved. In reality, those opportunities are outside our control but much of it is in the hands of our parents, their parents, their parents etc. and the choices that they made. However the over arching control lies in the hands of God, the almighty. Now I can’t explain why some are given different opportunities than others, but I do know that it’s up to me to make the most of these precious gifts I have been given. So having been surrounded with words of wisdom, distinguished guests and people of God who genuinely want to improve the lives of every single African, I too feel that it is also my desire and my duty to join them in the fight. So I’m going to do my best to get the most out of this internship, asking God to guide me daily in everything I do.

Skype's days are numbered.

Everyone who knows me, knows that i've been raving about Skype, simply because it means that i can keep in touch with all my friends (free) whilst away in Tunis. However, it seems that all may not be well with good ol' Skype. Have a read of this article from The Economist.

Friday, September 25, 2009

African's never stop surprising me with their selfish ways.

Ok I realise that I am making a huge generalisation there but when you have concrete evidence in favour of their inconsiderate ways it's hard not to. I've just read an article from Peace FM online http://elections.peacefmonline.com/politics/200909/27538.php that goes to show exactly what i'm saying. A little consideration could do so much for the continent. Instead of thinking how "I" can get ahead, what about changing that solatary pronoun for "we" eh?

Thursday, September 24, 2009

Offices are the Same Everywhere

So I'm sitting in whats going to be my office for the next 3 months. It's as you would expect any typical working space. Abrasive lighting, lots of filing cabinets but minimal storage space for anything practical like, pens, stapler, notepads etc. etc. I came prepared with my peppermint tea and other lil things to make my stay just a bit more pleasant, only to find that i have no where to put them. So at the moment they are being housed on the extremely bare desk. I suppose I shouldn't be complaining really or should I? More importantly, there's a computer on the desk that i can't access because I'm waiting on the IT peps to come hook me up to the network (3 days and still waiting!!).

As far as 1st day work outfits go, I think I look the part. I've tried to get a balance between my own personal style whilst remaining unoffensive to most. I donned a black pencil high waisted skirt with white pin-striped shirt and some black patent (killer) heels. Pictures to follow! I did get some "look at dis one" looks, but je m'en fou as the french say. Practically speaking, it probably wasn't the best option seeing as I hadn't factored in a half mile walk and a half hour wait just to get some lunch - yeah on reflection, probably not the best option. But as they say in Krio, "yanga nah pain" which means "beauty is pain" or something of the sort.

Ok moving onto the reason why I'm here in the first place, i.e. to work, gain lots of experience, learn more about the field. I guessed within the first hour or so that all the topic areas I've been trying to avoid during my masters course will actually be needed. So some advice to anyone who thinks that certain topics won't be needed later on in life, it will! This week, my task involves reviewing economic developments in Africa for a brief, which involves as you would imagine consultation of all the major economic and business websites. I've actually learnt a lot to my surprise, and will be sharing my new knowledge with you at some point.

http://www.bloomberg.com/news/regions/africa.html

http://af.reuters.com/

Bumbana produces electricity


We can finally see some results from this long, LONG process of waiting.


First Entry

So i've finally done it!! Managed to set up a blog, and now i can share, vent and hopefully inspire all you beautiful people out there through my random ways. I hope that this space of self-expression will be just that.